I’m always amazed at what some men will wear to a wedding. And most of those men that I’m referring to probably won’t ever read this article. But for those who do take pride in their appearance, that upon which we are judged at first glance, this is for you. Let’s start with the basics. Your role as a gentlemanly guest of a wedding is to show your appreciation and respect for the bride and groom, their family and other friends; to celebrate in their time of joy…NOT to stand out from the crowd. Nothing should take attention away from the bride – nor more subtly your date to the wedding.
So let’s make it simple: A suit, a dress shirt (preferably long sleeved) and a tie. No sneakers unless you are a hip hop artist, and no jeans and boots unless you literally had no time to change from working on the ranch. This fall there are a number of items that will make your appearance say “I care about how you see me”. Stick with a simple dark suit – pack up your linen and light colored suits to save for next spring. Keep the shirt white, blue, or ecru, and stay away from the pinks and yellows until the spring as well. Pick out a simple tie, solids and strips do a great job of that. Current trends are more about the cut of the suit and how things fit rather than the overzealous pattern or print on the tie (The Office’s Michael Scott has an endless supply of these ties and boxy suits– and we all know the impression he gives). My favorite subtle way to complete the outfit is a pocket square; linen and folded or silk and stuffed, you make the call. Just remember to pay attention to the details, be sure your tie is tight, dimpled and snug around the neck, suit buttoned and face clean shaven. I’m always amazed at how one minor detail can throw off an entire appearance. If you’d like more direction, just pick up a copy of a men’s magazine to get some hints. Remember, the details make all the difference. And everyone, especially the bride, will be appreciative.
Stuart, The Style Man
